Handcrafted Engagement Rings
Browse the handcrafted engagement ring collection from Matthew Ely Jewellery, or book a private consultation to select or design your own bespoke ring. You will work directly with Matthew, who personally sketches, designs and handcrafts each custom made piece.
Engagement Rings
How much to spend on an engagement ring?
There’s no set rule—spend what feels right for your budget. Some follow the "three-month salary" rule, but prioritising quality over price is key. Please let us know if you'd like to work within a specific budget or price range.
What are the different cuts of engagement rings?
Engagement rings come in a variety of cuts, each offering a unique look and sparkle. Here are the most popular cuts:
1. Round Brilliant: The most classic and popular cut, featuring 58 facets for maximum brilliance and fire. Ideal for those who love timeless elegance.
2. Princess Cut: A modern, square-shaped cut with sharp corners that offers a brilliant sparkle similar to a round diamond. A great balance between traditional and contemporary styles.
3. Oval Cut: An elongated version of the round cut that creates a flattering, lengthening effect on the finger. Known for its brilliance and unique appearance.
4. Emerald Cut: A rectangular shape with step-cut facets that offers a sophisticated, mirror-like effect rather than a fiery sparkle. Ideal for those who prefer vintage or Art Deco styles.
5. Cushion Cut: A square or rectangular shape with rounded corners that combines vintage charm with modern brilliance. Soft and romantic in appearance.
6. Marquise Cut: A long, narrow shape with pointed ends that maximises carat weight, making the diamond appear larger. Elegant and eye-catching.
7. Pear Cut: A combination of round and marquise cuts, shaped like a teardrop. Unique and elongating on the finger, it can be worn with the point facing up or down.
8. Asscher Cut: A square shape with step-cut facets, similar to the emerald cut, with a deep, mesmerising "hall of mirrors" effect. A vintage-inspired choice.
9. Radiant Cut: A square or rectangular cut with brilliant facets that blends the fire of a round diamond with the elegance of an emerald cut. A good choice for those who love sparkle.
10. Heart Cut: A romantic and symbolic heart shape that is best suited for those who love sentimental and unique designs. Requires a well-proportioned cut for the best appearance.
What is the best metal for an engagement ring?
Platinum and 18ct gold (white, yellow, or rose) are the most popular choices. Platinum is durable and hypoallergenic, while gold offers variety in colour and style.
What is a three-stone engagement ring?
A three-stone engagement ring features three gemstones, typically diamonds, set in a row. The centre stone is usually larger, with two smaller stones on either side. This design symbolises a couple’s past, present, and future, making it a sentimental choice. The side stones can be diamonds or other gemstones, adding contrast and personalisation.
Which hand and finger does your engagement ring go on?
An engagement ring is traditionally worn on the fourth finger of the left hand, known as the "ring finger." This tradition comes from the ancient belief that a vein, the "vena amoris," runs directly from this finger to the heart. However, in some cultures, such as in parts of Europe and India, engagement rings are worn on the right hand.
Can men wear engagement rings?
Yes, men can wear engagement rings. While traditionally more common for women, many men choose to wear engagement rings as a symbol of commitment.
Styles for men’s engagement rings range from simple bands to designs featuring diamonds or other gemstones.
Cultural traditions also play a role—some countries, like Brazil and Sweden, have long embraced engagement rings for men.
How to clean an engagement ring?
To keep your engagement ring looking its best, regular cleaning is essential. At home, soak your ring in warm water with a few drops of mild dish soap, then gently scrub with a soft toothbrush. Rinse thoroughly and pat dry with a lint-free cloth. Avoid harsh chemicals or ultrasonic cleaners unless advised by a jeweller, as they can damage certain gemstones and settings.
For a deeper clean, consider a professional service like Matthew Ely’s ‘Polish & Sparkle’ option, which restores brilliance and ensures the integrity of your ring. This expert cleaning removes built-up residue, polishes the metal, and checks for any loose stones or wear, keeping your ring in pristine condition.
Does an engagement ring have to be a diamond?
No, an engagement ring does not have to be a diamond. While white diamonds are the most popular choice due to their durability and brilliance, many couples opt for alternative gemstones like sapphires, emeralds, rubies, pink diamonds, or yellow diamonds. Gemstones can add personal meaning and individuality to a ring, making it a distinctive reflection of the wearer’s style.